Questions You Should Never Ask On a First Date

Maybe you want to understand a person’s past relationship to better envision your future relationship—but bringing up exes is asking for drama. Instead of hashing out history, focus on the present.

This can go both ways. Bringing attention to how much or how little someone talks is a sure-fire way to shut down any conversation. Let them express themself—whether that means practicing listening or being comfortable in silence.

July 9, 2025 | 8:11 pm